2025的最后一个晚上，你打算怎么跨年呢？ 时间不会回头，生活没有如果，珍惜现在，活在当下。过去的事，交给岁月去处理，未来的事，交给时间去证明。

It's another day of getting things done and simply embracing the moment of certainty, the value of present and the gift of truth. Your whole life doesn't only depends with the blessings that comes to you. It also relies on how you put an effort into something, so it will work and can happen. Beyond things that's out of your control, you're still given choices and decisions in solving and overcoming them, so there's always a reason for you to reach and succeed with your goals. When you are there, not only to make a change for something new but also to acknowledge whatsoever goodness that needs to remain or stay with your life and yourself. Anything can be as far as a dream but whatsoever that's close to your heart, is always reachable with your feelings, so keep going with the energy that inspires and motivates you. Life is awesome when you chose to be happy because you're eager to bring out the best thing in you.

今天阅读《风吹哪页读哪页》 不要预设和别人的关系，不管是友情还是爱情，预设长期都是不太现实的，就自然的相处，命运的风吹到哪页，我们就读到哪页，经久的陪伴都是不可求的，能够在合适的时候相知相遇，经历过，开心过，痛快过就已经是一种馈赠，有些人，注定就是生命中的过客，遇见是因为有债要还，离开是因为还清了，前世不欠，今生不见，缘起我在人群中看到你，缘灭我看见你在人群中。因果有序，缘起缘灭之间，就是我们一段接一段的旅程中，最难得的意义

For a long time, I thought my quiet nature meant I was introverted because I found comfort in my own company. In truth, I have always been drawn to peace. I step back to protect my emotional balance, but in the presence of people who bring warmth, security and genuine peace into my life, I come alive, becoming talkative, expressive and full of energy. 很长一段时间里，我都以为自己的沉静性格意味着我属于内向型，因为我能在独处时找到慰藉。事实上，我始终被平和所吸引。我会退后一步以维护自己的情绪平衡，但当身边出现那些能给我带来温暖、安全感与真切平和感的人时，我会变得活跃起来，变得健谈、富有表现力且充满活力。

As the year ends, it's a common time for reflection, gratitude for lessons learned (good and bad), celebrating small wins and strengths, and setting intentions for the future, focusing on personal growth, new possibilities, and appreciating loved ones before welcoming the fresh start of the new year. It's about acknowledging the journey, not just the destination, and carrying wisdom forward. 随着一年即将结束，这是一个进行反思、感激所汲取的教训（无论是好的还是坏的）、庆祝点滴成就与长处、并为未来设定目标的好时机。重点在于个人成长、探索新的可能性，并在迎接新的一年的崭新开始之前，对所爱之人表达感激之情。这关乎于承认旅程本身，而不仅仅是终点；同时还要将智慧传承下去。

你越是放松，结果往往越好。人生就是很神奇，当你能够放松下来，沉住气，不再急于求成，而是专注于打磨自己，同时降低期待，反而更容易得到好的结果。人只有在快乐的时候，运气才会变好，你越快乐，一切美好便水到渠成。心若向阳，好运自来。

I gave you my heart; I just didn't expect to get it back in pieces. Sometimes, the person you fought hardest for is the one who leaves you most defeated. Now, I'm just a stranger with all your secrets, trying to remember that some people will leave, but that's just the end of their part in my story. 我曾将我的心交予你；只是未曾料到它会以碎片的形式回到我手中。有时，你为之奋力争取的那个人，恰恰正是那个令你倍感挫败的人。如今，我只是一个知晓你所有秘密的陌生人，努力试图记住：有些人终会离去，但那只是他们在我生命中所扮演角色的终结。

这个世界最大的公平就是，每种选择都有代价，每种生活都藏着遗憾。我们总在后悔自己已经拥有的，总在幻想如果当初选了那条未走的路。 可人生哪有毫无遗憾的选择？就像仰望星空的人，总以为星星是宝石，晶莹透亮，没有纤瑕；唯有飞向星空的人才懂，那里也有灰尘石渣，和人间一样复杂。人生从来没有完美答案，无论怎么选，遗憾都在所难免。 重要的不是纠结对错，而是选择自己能承担的，承担自己所选择的。别一边后悔，一边内耗，把自己折腾得苦不堪言。选错了就认，得不到就放，想不通就睡。人生不会因为一个错误就彻底毁掉，但比走错路更可怕的，是站在原地，再也不敢出发，人生不过三万天，所以这页我翻篇

“It takes a minute to notice a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, a word to hurt them, but then a lifetime to forget them. » 需要一分钟才能注意到一个特别的人，一小时才能开始欣赏他们，一天才能爱上他们，一句话却足以伤害他们，而之后却要花上一生的时间才能忘却他们。» 查尔斯·卓别林

部分人都以为，感情就是无限度地贴近，是将自己的一切摊开，也渴望对方毫无保留，可现实往往是，两个人过度的靠近，那些曾经被距离美化的轮廓，会在彼此的注视下逐渐模糊，甚至显露出尖锐的棱角，人都是擅长伪装的，一开始，会刻意收敛棱角，放大彼此的契合点，用谨慎的善意维持平衡。过滤掉彼此的粗糙，只留下值得欣赏的轮廓，一旦距离产生的缓冲空间被打破，就会突然变得刺眼。最初的欣赏，会在一次次的碰撞中变的毫无耐心，曾经的包容，也会在频繁的摩擦中逐渐耗尽。其实没有人是完美的，人与人之间也永远存在无法完全重合的缝隙，学会给彼此留一份尊重和空间，保持适度的边界感，尊重彼此的独立性，不强求同步，不试图捆绑。唯有给予对方呼吸的空间与自我的领地，才能让欣赏与包容得以存续，避免亲密沦为相互消耗的牢笼。