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所谓内在客体,是我们把父æ¯ã€å…»è‚²è€…ç‰é‡è¦ä»–人,储å˜åœ¨æ½œæ„识里的心ç†è‚–åƒã€‚å®ƒä¸æ˜¯çŽ°å®žä¸å®Œæ•´çš„人,而是夹æ‚ç€æ¸©æš–ã€å¿½è§†ã€è‹›è´£ä¸ŽåŒ…容的碎片化情绪集åˆã€‚æˆå¹´åŽï¼Œæˆ‘们会ä¸è‡ªè§‰æŠŠè¿™ä»½å†…åœ¨å®¢ä½“æŠ•å°„åˆ°ä¼´ä¾£ã€æœ‹å‹ã€åŒäº‹èº«ä¸Šï¼Œç”¨æ—§çš„体验解读新的关系。所有人际åè§ä¸Žè¯¯è§£ï¼Œæœ¬è´¨éƒ½æ˜¯å†…在客体与现实他人的错ä½ç¢°æ’žã€‚ English:The so-called internal objects are psychological portraits of significant others such as parents and caregivers stored in our subconscious. They are not complete real people, but fragmented emotional collections mixed with warmth, neglect, criticism and tolerance. In adulthood, we unconsciously project these internal objects onto partners, friends and colleagues, and interpret new relationships with old experiences. All interpersonal prejudices and misunderstandings are essentially the misaligned collisions between internal objects and real others.
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å®¢ä½“å…³ç³»çš„æ ¸å¿ƒçœŸç›¸ï¼Œæ˜¯æˆå¹´äººæ‰€æœ‰çš„人际模å¼ï¼Œéƒ½æ˜¯ç«¥å¹´ä¸Žå…»è‚²è€…互动åŽï¼Œå†…化于心的心ç†å‰§æœ¬ã€‚我们并éžå‡ç©ºå¦ä¼šçˆ±äººã€å¤šç–‘ã€ç–离或讨好,而是把早年é‡è¦å…³ç³»çš„体验,å¤åˆ»æˆäº†ä¸€ç”Ÿçš„å…³ç³»åº•è‰²ã€‚é‚£äº›æ— æ„è¯†çš„äººé™…æ‰§å¿µä¸Žææƒ§ï¼Œæ ¹æºä»Žæ¥ä¸æ˜¯å½“下的关系矛盾,而是内在未被修å¤çš„客体创伤。看è§è¿™ä»½å†…在å¤åˆ»çš„æ¨¡å¼ï¼Œæ˜¯æ‰“ç ´å‘½è¿å¼é‡å¤çš„第一æ¥ã€‚ The core truth of object relations is that all adult interpersonal patterns are psychological scripts internalized from childhood interactions with caregivers. We do not learn to love, doubt, alienate or please others out of thin air, but replicate the experiences of early important relationships into the fundamental tone of our lifelong connections. Those unconscious interpersonal obsessions and fears never stem from current relationship conflicts, but from unresolved object traumas within ourselves. Recognizing this internally replicated pattern is the first step to breaking the repetitive cycle of fate.
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æ¾å¼›æ„Ÿï¼Œæ˜¯æˆå¹´äººæœ€å¥½çš„生活状æ€ã€‚å…许一切ä¸å¦‚愿,å…许生活有缺憾,å…许自己å¶å°”æ‡ˆæ€ ã€‚ä¸ç´§ç»·ã€ä¸ç„¦è™‘ã€ä¸å†…耗,éšå¿ƒç”Ÿæ´»ã€éšé‡è€Œå®‰ï¼Œå¿ƒæœ‰æš–阳,å²å²å®‰ç„¶ã€‚ A sense of relaxation is the best life state for adults. Allow things to go unsatisfactorily, allow life to have defects, and allow yourself to slack off occasionally. Do not keep tense, anxious or self-consumed. Live freely and adapt to circumstances. With warm sunshine in the heart, every year will be peaceful.
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花城广州,å†è§ï¼ ä¿æŒçƒçˆ±ï¼Œå¥”赴山海,平凡的日å也能开出温柔的花。生活或许平淡çç¢Žï¼Œæˆ–è®¸å¶æœ‰å¤±æ„,但çƒçˆ±å¯æŠµå²æœˆæ¼«é•¿ã€‚心怀温柔与希望,认真对待æ¯ä¸€å¤©ï¼Œç”Ÿæ´»ç»ˆä¼šå›žé¦ˆä¸‡èˆ¬ç¾Žå¥½ã€‚
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自我觉察: å½“ä½ æ„Ÿåˆ°æƒ³è¦â€œç›´æŽ¥æ¶ˆå¤±â€ã€â€œå…³æœºâ€æˆ–躲进被çªé‡Œè°ä¹Ÿä¸è§æ—¶ï¼Œä¸è¦å•纯责怪自己懒惰。试ç€ç†è§£è¿™æ˜¯ä½ 内心那个脆弱的自我(Regressed Ego)在寻求安全。 ç†è§£â€œå®…â€ä¸Žâ€œç¤¾æâ€ï¼š 许多现代人的“社æâ€å…¶å®žå¸¦æœ‰åˆ†è£‚æ ·ç‰¹å¾ã€‚è¿™ä¸ä»…仅是害羞,而是一ç§å¯¹â€œè¢«ä»–人淹没â€çš„æ·±å±‚ææƒ§ã€‚ é‡å»ºå®‰å…¨æ„Ÿï¼š å¦‚æžœä½ å‘现自己处于这ç§çжæ€ï¼Œå¼ºè¿«ç¤¾äº¤é€šå¸¸æ— æ•ˆã€‚ä½ éœ€è¦å…ˆæ‰¾åˆ°ä¸€ä¸ªç»å¯¹å®‰å…¨çš„空间(物ç†çš„æˆ–心ç†çš„),在那个空间里确认“我是安全的â€ï¼Œç„¶åŽæ…¢æ…¢å°è¯•低强度的连接。 å›žæƒ³ä¸€ä¸‹ä½ ç”Ÿæ´»ä¸çš„æŸä¸ªæ—¶åˆ»ï¼Œå½“ä½ æ„Ÿåˆ°æžåº¦ç–²æƒ«æˆ–å—ä¼¤æ—¶ï¼Œä½ å†…å¿ƒæ˜¯å¦ä¹Ÿæœ‰ä¸€ä¸ªæƒ³è¦èº²è¿›â€œæ·±å±±è€æž—â€æˆ–â€œé€æ˜Žæ°”泡â€é‡Œçš„å†²åŠ¨ï¼Ÿé‚£ä¸ªè®©ä½ æ„Ÿåˆ°ç»å¯¹å®‰å…¨çš„â€œå†…å¿ƒå ¡åž’â€ï¼Œç©¶ç«Ÿæ˜¯ä¿æŠ¤äº†ä½ ,还是囚ç¦äº†ä½ ?
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请永远å爱自己,置顶自己的情绪与感å—ã€‚ä½ çš„æ„Ÿå—æ°¸è¿œæœ€çè´µï¼Œä½ çš„å¿«ä¹æ°¸è¿œæœ€é‡è¦ã€‚ä¸å¿…讨好任何人,ä¸å¿…委屈自己,好好爱自己,一切美好都会奔赴而æ¥ã€‚ Always favor yourself and prioritize your emotions and feelings. Your feelings are always the most precious, and your happiness always matters the most. Do not please anyone or wrong yourself. Love yourself well, and all good things will come to you.
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äººç”Ÿæ‰€æœ‰çš„é—æ†¾ï¼Œéƒ½æ˜¯æ°åˆ°å¥½å¤„çš„æˆå…¨ã€‚失去的ä¸å¿…惋惜,错过的ä¸å¿…çº ç»“ï¼Œè¿‡å¾€çš„ä¸å¿…眷æ‹ã€‚ä¸€åˆ‡éƒ½æ˜¯æœ€å¥½çš„å®‰æŽ’ï¼Œæ”¾ä¸‹è¿‡å¾€ã€æŽ¥çº³å½“ä¸‹ã€æœŸå¾…未æ¥ï¼Œå‰è·¯æ¼«æ¼«ï¼Œçš†æ˜¯æ¸©æŸ”光亮。 All regrets in life are perfect fulfillments. Do not regret losses, dwell on misses or linger on the past. Everything is the best arrangement. Let go of the past, accept the present and look forward to the future. The long road ahead is full of tenderness and light.
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所有的温柔自愈,都是自我救赎的过程。ä¸å¿…害怕低谷,低谷是é‡ç”Ÿçš„开始;ä¸å¿…ç•æƒ§é»‘暗,黑暗过åŽå¿…有曙光。åšå®ˆæœ¬å¿ƒã€ä¿æŒå–„良ã€å¿ƒæ€€å¸Œæœ›ï¼Œé£Žé›¨æ•£å°½ï¼Œçš†æ˜¯æ™´æœ—。 All gentle self-healing is a process of self-rescue. Do not fear troughs, for troughs are the beginning of rebirth. Do not dread darkness, for dawn will definitely come after darkness. Stick to your original heart, keep kindness and hold hope. After the wind and rain, everything will be sunny.
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好好善待自己,是一生最é‡è¦çš„课题。照顾好自己的身体,安抚好自己的情绪,æˆå…¨å¥½è‡ªå·±çš„内心。ä¸å‹‰å¼ºã€ä¸çº 结ã€ä¸å†…è€—ï¼Œè‡ªåœ¨æ´’è„±ã€æ¸©æŸ”å‘é˜³ï¼Œä¾¿æ˜¯æœ€å¥½çš„ç”Ÿæ´»æ¨¡æ ·ã€‚ Treating yourself well is the most important lifelong topic. Take good care of your body, soothe your emotions and fulfill your inner heart. Do not force, dwell or consume yourself. Be free and easy, gentle and positive. This is the best appearance of life.

