非常喜欢心理学家维吉尼亚的这句话: I like this sentence from psychologist Virginia very much: 当我内心足够强大 When my heart is strong enough 你指责我，我感受到你的受伤 You accuse me. and I feel your hurt 你讨好我，我看到你需要认可 You flatter me. i see you need validation 当你能够意识到这世界上的所有关系 When you realize that all relationships in the world 其实都包含着一场巨大的恐惧投射时 Involve a huge projection of fear 别人的评价就再也不会影响到你 The judgment of others will no longer affect you #人间草木#吾独爱莲#内心强大#生活流水账