Dear Mr Gotcha, Always remember that You are 18 with 32 years of Experience.[蛋糕][蛋糕][蛋糕] 无善无恶心之体 有善有恶意之动 知善知恶是良知 为善去恶是格物 永远年轻，永远好奇，永远在路上，人生，还有更美好更温暖更有意义的体验等着自己！ Ageing isn’t about lost youth, It’s about finding... Who your true friends really are. The difference between shiny and worthy. The confidence to be yourself in any room. The time to dedicate to the things that bring you joy. The wisdom to say no to the things that don’t. The freedom to choose your own path in life. The courage to be happy in your own skin. The knowledge that very little really truly matters, in the end. Ageing isn’t about lost youth, my friends, no… it is not. I haven’t lost a thing, in fact. Except perhaps, my ability to give a toss, about the things that won’t matter when I’m gone. And remember, not everyone gets the chance to grow older. It truly is a privilege denied to many. No, ageing isn’t about lost youth, It’s about finding... Finding out, who you were meant to be, all along. ​

今夜月明人尽望，不知秋思落谁家。 ——唐·王建《十五夜望月》 夜宛如一块巨大的深蓝色绸缎，轻柔地笼罩着世间。今夜，明月高悬，如银盘般散发着清冷又迷人的光辉，引得无数人驻足仰望。街头巷尾，人们或凭栏，或倚窗，皆沉醉于这皎洁月色。然而，在这同一轮明月下，不知那如潮水般的秋思，究竟会悄然落入谁家的小院，勾起谁心底深藏的眷恋与惆怅？

我们的本性不由我们的能力决定，而是在于我们的选择。《哈利·波特与密室》 在时光长河中，我们常误以为能力是主宰命运的舵手，却忘了，真正勾勒人生轨迹的，是那一次次的选择。能力或许如闪耀的星辰，带来光芒，却无法决定灵魂的方向。选择，宛如心底的指南针，它无关能力大小，只关乎内心坚守。是善是恶，是进是退，每一次抉择，都在雕琢本性，书写独属于我们的传奇。

“一段良好的关系就是两个人说：‘嘿，生活很艰难，但我想和你一起面对。’就是这样。它不是一段高光时刻的合集。也不总是浪漫的晚餐或宏大的举动。有时候只是一起叠衣服，或者当言语显得太过沉重时互相发送一些搞笑的米姆。爱并不总是大声喧哗。有时候，它只是再次选择彼此。” A good relationship is just two people saying “hey, life is hard, but I want to do it with you.” That’s it. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s not always romantic dinners or grand gestures. Sometimes it’s folding laundry together and sending each other memes when words feel like too much. Love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just choosing each other again.

因为远处有呼唤我的东西，我把悲伤喜欢过了。 ——谷川俊太郎 在生活的幽谧小径上徘徊，我曾被悲伤的阴云层层笼罩，每一寸空气都弥漫着苦涩。然而，在心灵的最深处，总有个声音从遥远的地方隐隐传来，似光穿透迷雾，似风拂过荒原。那呼唤充满力量与希望，让我毅然转身。从此，我不再困于悲伤的枷锁，而是将悲伤细细品味，而后带着勇气，奔赴那远方未知的召唤。

I’m focused on building a life that truly aligns with my values. If that means keeping my circle smaller and filled with genuine, positive energy, then so be it. I’m no longer entertaining toxic relationships or environments that drain me. I want to be surrounded by people who uplift, support and inspire me to grow. 我专注于构建一种真正与我的价值观相一致的生活。如果这意味着让我的社交圈变得更小，并且充满真诚、积极向上的能量，那么就这样吧。我不再容忍那些有毒的关系或环境，它们会消耗我的精力。我想要被那些能激励我、支持我、促使我成长的人所围绕。

努力的意義就是： 不要當父母需要你時，除了淚水，一無所有； 不要當孩子需要你時，除了慚愧，一無所有； 不要當自己回首過去，除了蹉跎，一無所有！ （ 中国.北京 ）^_^

The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It is the ability to stand on your own two feet; to be comfortable in your own skin, and to not need someone else to complete you. When you are capable of being alone, you are capable of loving others without fear of being rejected or abandoned. You can love without conditions and you can accept love without feeling unworthy. The capacity to be alone is a gift and it is one we all should strive to develop. When we're comfortable with ourselves we can open our hearts to others and experience the true joy of love. “能够独处的能力就是爱的能力。这是一种能够自立的能力；能够在自己的状态下感到舒适，并且不需要他人的陪伴来使自己完整。” 当你能够独处时，你就具备了爱他人的能力，而不会担心被拒绝或抛弃。 你可以无条件的去爱，也可以接受爱而不会感到自己不值得被爱。 独处的能力是一种天赋，我们都应该努力去培养这种能力。当我们对自己感到自在时，就能敞开心扉去接纳他人，从而体验到爱的真正喜悦。

Get out and live a little. Do it sad, do it anxious, do it depressed. Don't let your emotions prevent you from living. Sometimes it takes new experiences to heal you and to believe there's more to life than your current situation. 走出去，体验一点生活。可以是悲伤的，可以是焦虑的，可以是沮丧的。不要让情绪阻碍你前行。 有时候，只有新的经历才能治愈你，让你相信生活还有比当前处境更美好的东西。

人生如逆旅，我亦是行人。 ——苏轼《临江仙》 人生如同一场逆行的旅程，充满了未知与挑战，我亦是这漫漫旅途中的一名行人。在这条路上，我踏着晨露，迎着夕阳，经历着风雨，也见证着彩虹。每一步都留下足迹，每一刻都在成长。我怀揣着梦想，心中藏着远方，即便前路坎坷，亦无惧无畏。人生最美的风景，总在最不经意的转弯处等待着我，而我，正欣然前往。