Happiness does not depend on what happens around us, but on what happens within us; happiness is measured by the spirit with which we face problems, and how much we enjoy the beautiful moments that happen to each insist, we face the challenges of life, with courage, let's stick our tongue out at them and be happy for life.. Let's enjoy those moments of happiness that life gives us. 幸福并不取决于发生在我们周围的事情，而是取决于我们内心发生的事情；幸福是通过我们以何种精神面对问题来衡量的，以及我们能在多大程度上享受那些不期而遇的美好时刻。无论我们面对生活中的挑战，都要勇敢地迎头而上，让我们勇敢地面对它们，享受生活的乐趣。 让我们享受生命中赐予我们的那些快乐时刻。

人心最難琢磨，也最是險惡。 你永遠不會想到，是什麼人，會在什麼時間背刺你。也許就是身邊的熟人，也許是你幫助過的人，也許是從來沒有打過交道但看不慣你的人。 時刻保持警惕的心理，不要去過度的美化人物，不要因為別人身上的加持而對他放鬆警惕。 往往是心懷不軌的人最易偽裝自己，即使身邊的人都對你保持善意的姿態，也不要放鬆警惕，因為，羊皮之下，不一定是。 慢慢長大才知道，言多必失，不言又不可行，故多了許多權謀算計，多了許多虛情假意。 不再可以直抒胸臆，只能一點點偽裝自己，混跡在狼中，做披著狼皮的自己。 也許不是本意，但我們終成了惡龍。 但願所有的惡龍都存有一點良知，知道自己的初心何在，懂得讓自己彌留之際多一點美好，少一絲愧疚。

The years taught me, that everything has an end, that life is unpredictable, that maybe there is no tomorrow... Because everything can be turned upside down in just an instant. I learned that love isn't usually forever, places change, friendships end and people leave. But even though time kills everything and even though in life everything ends, there are days and moments, places and people, that always stay... Because as the past slowly fades away, the beautiful things, the most beautiful people, leave a trail, a scent, a memory that settles forever in our hearts... 岁月教会了我，一切皆有尽头，生命是变幻莫测的，或许明天并不存在... 因为一切事物都可能在瞬间被彻底颠覆。 我了解到，爱通常不是永恒的，地点会变化，友谊会终结，人们也会离开。 但即使时间会吞噬一切，即使生命中的每件事都会结束，但仍有一些日子、时刻、地点和人物，它们始终存在... 因为随着过去的慢慢消逝，那些美好的事物、最美丽的人，都会留下痕迹、气息和记忆，这些记忆将永远铭刻在我们的心中...

No matter how tired I am with my life, there's still a voice within me that tells me I have to survive. I have to win my battle. I have to be strong. Not because that's what people expect me to be, but because I deserve to be okay. I don't deserve sadness and pain. I've been very good to people, and I know I don't deserve the wounds that they left on me. I deserve love, not heartache. I deserve happiness, not sadness. And hence, I owe myself forgiveness for forgetting the things that I always deserve. 无论我对自己的生活感到多么疲惫，我内心仍有一个声音告诉我，我必须生存下去。我必须赢得这场战斗。我必须坚强起来。这不是因为人们期望我成为那样，而是因为我理应过得不错。我不应该承受悲伤和痛苦。我一直对人们很好，我知道我不应该承受他们留给我的伤害。我值得拥有爱，而不是心痛。我值得拥有幸福，而不是悲伤。因此，我欠自己一个原谅，原谅自己忘记了那些我一直理应得到的东西。

在冬天我要做一个毛茸茸的人，穿着厚毛衣和大棉袄，戴长围巾和小手套，不算计不思考。 ——尹丽川《怎样过一个冬天》 当凛冽的北风裹挟着冬的寒意呼啸而来，我决心在冬天做个毛茸茸的人。穿上那件软乎乎的厚毛衣，仿佛被云朵温柔环抱；再裹上蓬松的大棉袄，抵御外界的丝丝冷意。脖颈间绕上长长的围巾，双手藏进小巧的手套里。此刻，我不去算计生活的得失，也不让思绪在琐事中纷扰，只尽情享受这冬日独有的温暖与宁静，惬意又自在。

And in the blink of an eye the year is over... It seems that time had invisible wings and ripped at us barely as it passed. We look back and everything seems so close, so recent, as if the days slipped away without us even realizing it. They left without warning, leaving footprints and dreams that still They wait for their turn. But... there were laughs that still resonate, there were goodbyes and beginnings, stumbles and small victories. And so, almost without warning comes the closure where the soul balances and the heart decides what to take and what to leave. The clock doesn't forgive, neither does life, we just have to go on Because time waits for no reason to no one ...

常怀敬畏之心， 不代表低头， 只是你得知道， 风顺不等于你会飞。 . 别太相信好运， 它来得像朋友请客， 走得像你买单。 有些人一夜暴富， 其实只是宇宙的抽风模式开太久。 . 别把偶然当天赋， 也别把命好当实力。 人最容易飘的时候， 往往是风在帮你， 不是你真有翅膀。 . 敬畏，不是怕， 是知道自己也会摔。 命运的好脾气有时是假象， 它笑着看你膨胀， 然后轻轻一戳。 . 所以，别太自信， 风停了，连你都认不出自己。

Sometimes when we are sad, All we need is another being, just to sit with us and say nothing. No words are needed as company needs no dialogue, nor questions. Sometimes we don't have answers, because we are struggling, to understand and absorb our feelings. Some things are so heavy.. we feel unable to share our burden, So we simply sit and hold it for a while, suspended in the moment. The warmth of someone sitting right next to you, yet, asking nothing of you, will suffice. 'Your're not alone ' is not uttered, As we know, in that moment , we aren't alone .. And that, in itself, is enough 有时当我们感到悲伤时， 我们只需要另一个存在体， 只是和我们坐在一起，一句话也不说。 无需言语，公司即已说明一切 无需对话或提问。 有时我们找不到答案， 因为我们正处于困境中，所以... 理解并吸收我们的感受。 有些东西是如此沉重... 我们感到无法分担我们的负担， 因此，我们只需静坐并保持这种状态 有一段时间，仿佛被定格在这一瞬间。 某人坐着的温暖感 就在你身边，然而， 不向你提出任何要求就足够了。 你不是独自一人这句话并未被说出 正如我们所知，在那一刻， 我们并不孤单... 这本身就已经足够了

很喜歡《萬物理論》裏說的這段話： 人類的努力應該是沒有邊界的，我們千差萬別，不管生活看上去有多糟糕，總有你能夠做的事情，並且能夠成功。有生命的地方，就有希望啊。 的確，無論什麼時候，我們都應該正向思考，相信付出有回報，相信時間的力量。 任何時候，無論多麼狼狽難堪，都要咬牙挺過去。 總有新的風景，總會有驚喜和好運。 別嘆，別怨，生活好與壞全然在自己，在你的心。

TO MY PAST: 🌹I can't change what has happened, but if I'm going to give you a well-deserved ending. TO MY PRESENT: Thank you for giving me the opportunity to change all limiting patterns and improve in all aspects. TO MY FUTURE: I will meet you with the best version of me that you won't be able to recognize me. I've already survived the worst, now the best is coming, everything I do from now on will be to be happy, stable and at peace! 🌹🌹🌹 致我的过去: 🌹我无法改变已经发生的事情，但我会给你一个应得的结局。 致我此刻的礼物: 感谢你给我这个机会，让我能够改变所有限制性的模式，并在各个方面有所提升。 致我的未来: 我会以最好的状态与你相见，以至于你可能认不出我。我已经挺过了最艰难的时刻，现在最好的时期即将到来，从今以后我所做的每一件事都是为了快乐、稳定与平和！🌹🌹🌹